Getting paid to care for a parent in Vermont
Who can be the paid caregiver
Adult children, siblings, other relatives, and friends can be hired as the paid personal care attendant under the consumer- or surrogate-directed option. Attendants must be 18+ and pass DAIL background checks. Two traps that catch families: (1) If a surrogate has to manage the employment because your parent can't direct their own care, that surrogate CANNOT also be the paid caregiver. The CFC manual says a surrogate employer shall not be paid to provide personal care, respite, companion, or Flexible Choices services to the person they are a surrogate for. So one family member has to be the surrogate/employer and a different person has to be the one collecting the paycheck. Plan this before you apply. (2) If you are your parent's probate-appointed legal guardian, you cannot be paid for ANY Choices for Care service: not personal care, not respite, not companion care, not Flexible Choices, not Adult Family Care. Guardianship and getting paid are mutually exclusive here. For Adult Family Care (live-in daily-rate care), an adult child CAN be the paid home provider, but a spouse, parent, stepparent, adoptive parent, domestic partner, legal guardian, or representative payee cannot, and AFC home providers must be 21+.
The spouse question
Partially yes. Under CFC, a spouse or civil union partner CAN be paid for hands-on personal care (ADLs like bathing, dressing, transfers, plus meal prep and medication management) but CANNOT be paid for IADL-only help (housekeeping, shopping, transportation), respite care, or companion care, and cannot be the Adult Family Care home provider (CFC Program Operations Manual, High/Highest, rev. July 2020, confirmed Aug 2026). For an adult child caring for a parent this rarely matters, but it matters if your other parent expects pay too.
Waitlist reality
Highest Needs group: served without a waitlist once eligible (protected by program rules). High Needs group: new applicants CAN be waitlisted when state funds run short, ranked by a need score, with 60-day reviews. Moderate Needs group (light services, no full personal care) is capped by local funding. The separate Attendant Services Program's non-Medicaid General Fund track has been frozen to new entrants since July 2014. Medicaid financial approval itself commonly takes 1-3 months.
Other doors in Vermont
| Program | What to know |
|---|---|
| Adult Family Care (within Choices for Care) | Vermont's structured-family-caregiving analog: the parent lives with (or moves in with) an approved home provider — an adult child qualifies, a spouse does not — who is paid a daily tier rate of $101.26-$205.18/day (SFY2027) through an Authorized Agency, plus paid respite days for the family. |
| Attendant Services Program (ASP/PDAC) | Participant-directed attendant care for adults with severe permanent disabilities who can self-direct their care; Medicaid-funded track pays attendants at least $16.11/hr (eff. 7/5/2026) via ARIS; the non-Medicaid General Fund track has been frozen to new applicants since July 2014. Contact: Wanda Wright, DAIL, 802-595-4917. |
| CFC Moderate Needs Group | For parents not yet at nursing-home level of care: limited homemaker/adult day/flexible funds (about $3,500/yr cap), with a self-hire minimum around $17.49/hr budgeted incl. taxes; funding is capped locally, so availability varies. |
| Veteran-Directed Care / VA caregiver programs | If the parent is a veteran: VA White River Junction health care runs caregiver support (va.gov/white-river-junction-health-care/health-services/caregiver-support/); ask about Veteran-Directed Care availability there — ARIS Solutions administers VDC budgets regionally — plus PCAFC and Aid & Attendance. VDC's current WRJ rollout status was not independently confirmed. |
| National Family Caregiver Support Program | Through the five Area Agencies on Aging (1-800-642-5119): respite grants and supports for unpaid family caregivers — help, but not a wage. |
Wartime veteran or surviving spouse in the family? VA Aid & Attendance stacks on top of state programs — see the national guide.
How to apply — step by step
- 1. Call your local Area Agency on Aging Senior HelpLine at 1-800-642-5119 to get a case manager and options counseling, or call the DAIL Adult Services Division at 802-241-0294 to reach your Long-Term Care Clinical Coordinator nurse for the clinical (nursing-home level of care) assessment.
- 2. Apply for Long-Term Care Medicaid through DVHA: call 802-476-0100 (toll-free 1-833-840-0061) and say you need 'Long-Term Care Medicaid,' or apply online at dvha.vermont.gov/members. Expect the financial review to take up to 3 months.
- 3. Once clinically and financially approved, choose the Home-Based consumer/surrogate-directed option (or Flexible Choices) with your Area Agency on Aging case manager and build the service plan/budget that names your family member as the hired caregiver.
- 4. Enroll as an employer with ARIS Solutions, the state's fiscal agent (800-798-1658): employee hiring packet, background check, tax forms.
- 5. Caregiver starts logging hours on ARIS timesheets and is paid at least $16.11/hr (current CBA minimum) from the authorized budget.
Where to start: Area Agency on Aging Senior HelpLine: 1-800-642-5119 (statewide entry point); DAIL Adult Services Division / Long-Term Care Clinical Coordinator: 802-241-0294; Long-Term Care Medicaid application (DVHA): 1-833-840-0061 or dvha.vermont.gov/members
Do it yourself vs. get help
Free, accredited help first, always: your Area Agency on Aging (eldercare.acl.gov) walks families through these applications at no charge, and your county Veterans Service Officer files VA claims free. Where Resbit fits: if you're working a job and don't have hours for hold music, Resbit finds what your family qualifies for, fills out the paperwork down to the signature line, and does the chasing — flat $49/month, and the screener that starts it is free.
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Try the free screener Join the waitlist- DAIL Adult Services Division — Choices for Care Options At-A-Glance (updated 9/8/2025) — checked 2026-08-05
- DAIL memo via ARIS Solutions — CFC Consumer & Surrogate-Directed New Wages Effective 07/05/2026 ($16.11/hr minimum; $18.28 personal care base rate) — checked 2026-08-05
- DAIL memo via ARIS Solutions — Attendant Services Program (PDAC) New Wages Effective 07/05/2026 — checked 2026-08-05
- Choices for Care High/Highest Program Operations Manual (spouse, family-hire, waitlist rules) — checked 2026-08-05
- DAIL Adult Services Division — SFY2027 Medicaid Rates (AFC daily tiers, service rates) — checked 2026-08-05
- DAIL Adult Services Division — Choices for Care Program page — checked 2026-08-05
- DAIL Adult Services Division — Attendant Services Program page — checked 2026-08-05
- ARIS Solutions — VT Agency of Human Services Programs (fiscal agent, contacts) — checked 2026-08-05
- American Council on Aging — Vermont Choices for Care overview (secondary corroboration) — checked 2026-08-05
- Vermont Business Magazine — Homecare providers ratify CBA (union wage context) — checked 2026-08-05