Getting paid to care for a parent in Utah
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Who can be the paid caregiver
Under the Aging Waiver's participant-directed option the parent hires the caregiver of their choice, including adult children, other relatives, and friends — the state's rate sheet even has a separate line item for 'Personal Attendant Service - Participant Employed,' which is the code you get paid under. Under the New Choices Waiver an adult child can be paid for personal care and homemaker services as long as they are not the parent's legal guardian. Be careful with the guardian rule, because it is program-by-program rather than one statewide ban: Utah's EPAS program explicitly says the paid assistant may not be a legal guardian, the guardian restriction on New Choices is reported by the American Council on Aging but is not spelled out in a public state document, and Utah's DSPD Caregiver Compensation program goes the other way and pays parents, step-parents, legal guardians, and spouses outright. If you are your parent's guardian, ask the case manager about your specific waiver before assuming either answer. Caregivers must pass program screening and be employed either directly by your parent through the fiscal/employer agent or by an enrolled Medicaid agency.
The spouse question
Yes, but narrowly. Utah SB 63 (2021) and Utah Admin Code R414-523 created Spousal Caregiver Compensation for the HCBS waivers serving people 65 and older, people with intellectual or physical disabilities, and people with acquired brain injury. The spouse must provide "extraordinary care" — care beyond what a spouse would ordinarily do for someone the same age without a disability — and all four of the rule's conditions have to be met: your parent must choose the spouse and the care planning team must support that choice; the spouse cannot also be the one directing your parent's services (you cannot be both the decision-maker and the paid worker); the spouse agrees to provide no more than what the care or service plan approves; and the spouse must actually be able to meet your parent's needs — the rule gives the example of specialized training such as a nursing license, or the Department deciding the spouse can safely handle the health and safety needs. That last one is the condition families most often get tripped up by. Approval is case-by-case, so confirm with the waiver case manager before counting on it. (Utah's EPAS program, by contrast, flatly excludes spouses and legal guardians.)
Waitlist reality
Real waitlists. The Aging Waiver is capped at 550 people per year (500 served at any one time) and keeps a formal "Applicant List" ranked by a risk-screening score, not first-come-first-served — waits of months are common and depend on your area and urgency score. The New Choices Waiver is capped around 2,500 and only accepts people already living in a facility (90+ days in a Medicaid nursing home, or 365+ days in assisted living/Type N facility); waitlists can form when slots fill. Utah's regular State Plan Personal Care Services has no waitlist but is agency-based and does not pay family members.
Other doors in Utah
| Program | What to know |
|---|---|
| New Choices Waiver | Utah's second door: for people already in a nursing home 90+ days or assisted living 365+ days who want to move home. Family (non-guardian) can be the paid attendant; some spousal cases possible. Apply: 800-662-9651 opt 6. |
| Alternatives Program (state-funded, non-Medicaid) | DHHS Aging and Adult Services in-home services via AAAs for adults 18+ at risk of nursing home placement; income limit ~150% FPL. Whether family can be the paid worker varies by AAA — could not be confirmed; ask when you call. No Medicaid enrollment required. |
| Veteran-Directed Care (VA Salt Lake City Health Care System) | Available in Utah, operated with Area Agencies on Aging (e.g., Weber Human Services). Veteran gets a flexible budget and can hire family, including a spouse. Ask the VA social worker or call VA SLC Caregiver Support. |
| VA Aid & Attendance + PCAFC | Aid & Attendance pension supplement can informally fund family care for wartime veterans/surviving spouses; PCAFC pays a monthly stipend (including to spouses) for eligible veterans. Utah Dept. of Veterans & Military Affairs: 801-326-2372. |
| DSPD Caregiver Compensation | Pays family (including some spouses/parents) on DSPD disability waivers — relevant only if the person needing care is on a Services for People with Disabilities waiver, not the typical aging-parent path. dspd.utah.gov/caregiver-compensation. |
| No structured family caregiving model | Utah has no Georgia/Indiana-style per-diem structured family caregiving benefit; payment is hourly through the waivers above. |
Wartime veteran or surviving spouse in the family? VA Aid & Attendance stacks on top of state programs — see the national guide.
How to apply — step by step
- 1. Call your local Area Agency on Aging (find yours at daas.utah.gov/locations/ or call the Division of Aging and Adult Services, 801-538-3910) and ask for an Aging Waiver intake and risk screening for your parent (must be 65+).
- 2. Complete the Demographic Intake and Risk Screening form; your parent is placed on the Applicant List, ranked by urgency and risk — ask where they stand and how long typical waits are in your county.
- 3. When a slot opens, an MDS-HC assessment confirms nursing-facility level of care within 30 days; at the same time file the Medicaid financial application (eligibility questions: 1-866-435-7414).
- 4. In care planning, choose the participant-directed Personal Attendant Services option and name yourself as the employee; you enroll and get paid through the program's fiscal/employer agent after background screening.
- 5. If your parent is already in a nursing home (90+ days) or assisted living (365+ days), skip to the New Choices Waiver instead: 800-662-9651 option 6 (Salt Lake area 801-538-6155 option 6) or apply online via the PRISM/UtahID portal.
- 6. If your parent is a wartime veteran or surviving spouse, also ask VA Salt Lake City about Veteran-Directed Care and Aid & Attendance in parallel — no Medicaid required.
Where to start: Your local Area Agency on Aging — directory at daas.utah.gov/locations/; Utah Division of Aging and Adult Services 801-538-3910. New Choices Waiver program office: 800-662-9651, option 6.
Do it yourself vs. get help
Free, accredited help first, always: your Area Agency on Aging (eldercare.acl.gov) walks families through these applications at no charge, and your county Veterans Service Officer files VA claims free. Where Resbit fits: if you're working a job and don't have hours for hold music, Resbit finds what your family qualifies for, fills out the paperwork down to the signature line, and does the chasing — flat $49/month, and the screener that starts it is free.
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Try the free screener Join the waitlist- Utah Medicaid — Aging Waiver program page — checked 2026-08-05
- Utah Medicaid — Aging Waiver Codes and Rates effective 7/1/2023 (official rate sheet) — checked 2026-08-05
- Utah Legislature interim memo: Medicaid Aging Waiver rates and spending (Oct 2024) — checked 2026-08-05
- Utah Aging Waiver 1915(c) Renewal Application (Jan 15, 2025) — caps, Applicant List, AAA intake — checked 2026-08-05
- Utah Medicaid — New Choices Waiver program page — checked 2026-08-05
- New Choices Waiver Rate Sheet effective 7/1/2022 — checked 2026-08-05
- Utah Admin Code R414-523 — Extraordinary Care Definition for Spousal Caregiver Compensation — checked 2026-08-05
- Utah SB 63 (2021) — Medicaid waiver amendments for spousal caregiver reimbursement — checked 2026-08-05
- American Council on Aging (medicaidplanningassistance.org) — Utah Aging Waiver — checked 2026-08-05
- American Council on Aging — Utah New Choices Waiver — checked 2026-08-05
- Givers — Get Paid as a Family Caregiver in Utah — checked 2026-08-05
- Weber Human Services Aging — Veteran Directed Care (Utah) — checked 2026-08-05