Getting paid to care for a parent in Colorado
Who can be the paid caregiver
Adult children, siblings, other relatives, friends — and spouses. Colorado is one of the more generous states: under CDASS the member (or their Authorized Representative) hires whoever they choose, including family. Under IHSS a home health agency employs the family member. One catch: in CDASS, the person serving as the member's Authorized Representative cannot also be the paid attendant — one person can't hold both roles.
The spouse question
Yes, spouses can be paid under both CDASS and IHSS — unusual among states. Since the Community First Choice launch (July 2025), legally responsible individuals including spouses may be paid attendants. Family/spouse attendants under IHSS are generally capped around 40 hrs/week (per program guides; confirm your cap with the agency). Live-in family caregivers may also exclude these wages from federal income tax under IRS Notice 2014-7 (difficulty-of-care) — HCPF issued memos on this in 2025-2026; talk to a tax advisor.
Waitlist reality
Genuinely good news: none for attendant care. Community First Choice is a state-plan entitlement — if your parent qualifies, they get it; there is no waitlist by design. Colorado's adult HCBS waivers that add extra services (like the EBD waiver for people 65+/disabled) also have no waitlist for elderly adults. The wait you WILL feel is processing time: Medicaid financial approval plus the functional (level-of-care) assessment by the Case Management Agency typically takes several weeks to a few months.
Other doors in Colorado
| Program | What to know |
|---|---|
| Family CNA program (Medicaid Home Health) | If your parent needs skilled-level care, a family member can get certified as a nurse aide (CNA) and be paid by a home health agency for the skilled tasks. More training upfront, but pays for care CDASS hours don't cover. Ask HCPF or a home health agency about the Family CNA pathway. |
| Veteran-Directed Care (VDC) | Available through VA Eastern Colorado and Western Colorado health care systems, run with Area Agencies on Aging (DRCOG AAA in the Denver metro). Veteran gets a flexible budget and can hire family, including a spouse. Start with your VA social worker or County Veterans Service Office. |
| VA Program of Comprehensive Assistance for Family Caregivers (PCAFC) | Monthly stipend to the family caregiver of a veteran with a 70%+ service-connected rating. Apply at caregiver.va.gov or 1-855-260-3274. |
| Colorado FAMLI (paid family leave) | Not caregiver wages, but if you're employed you can take up to 12 weeks of state-paid leave (partial wage replacement) to care for a seriously ill parent. famli.colorado.gov. |
| Home Care Allowance (HCA) | Small county-administered state cash grant (not Medicaid) that helps some low-income adults pay a caregiver when they don't qualify for Medicaid attendant care. Apply through county Human Services; funds are limited. |
| Area Agency on Aging caregiver support | Respite hours, counseling, and sometimes small grants via the National Family Caregiver Support Program — support, not a paycheck. Find yours at 1-844-265-2372 (Colorado ADRC). |
Wartime veteran or surviving spouse in the family? VA Aid & Attendance stacks on top of state programs — see the national guide.
How to apply — step by step
- 1. If your parent is NOT yet on Health First Colorado (Medicaid): apply at CO.gov/PEAK (co.gov/PEAK) or through your county Human Services office. For long-term care, financial rules are roughly income under ~$2,900/mo (waiver path, 300% of SSI) or ~$994/mo (regular state-plan path) and assets under $2,000 for a single person — a Medicaid planner can help if they're over.
- roughly income under $2,982/mo in 2026 (300% of SSI) for the waiver/long-term-care path, or ~$994/mo regular state-plan path; assets under $2,000 single (both confirmed for 2026).
- 3. The CMA does a functional assessment to confirm your parent needs nursing-facility level of care, then writes the care plan and authorizes attendant hours under Community First Choice.
- 4. Choose the delivery model: CDASS (your parent or an Authorized Representative is the employer, you set the wage, a Financial Management Services vendor runs payroll) or IHSS (an approved home health agency employs you and handles paperwork).
- 5. For CDASS: complete the required training and readiness assessment through Consumer Direct Colorado (consumerdirectco.com), pick an FMS vendor, enroll as the attendant, and start logging hours. For IHSS: enroll as an attendant with an IHSS agency in your area.
- 6. First paycheck usually lands within a few weeks of enrollment paperwork clearing; wages are W-2.
Where to start: Health First Colorado Member Contact Center: 1-800-221-3943 (State Relay 711); local Case Management Agency directory: hcpf.colorado.gov/case-management-agency-directory; CDASS training/questions: Consumer Direct Colorado, consumerdirectco.com
Do it yourself vs. get help
Free, accredited help first, always: your Area Agency on Aging (eldercare.acl.gov) walks families through these applications at no charge, and your county Veterans Service Officer files VA claims free. Where Resbit fits: if you're working a job and don't have hours for hold music, Resbit finds what your family qualifies for, fills out the paperwork down to the signature line, and does the chasing — flat $49/month, and the screener that starts it is free.
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Try the free screener Join the waitlist- HCPF — Consumer-Directed Attendant Support Services (CDASS) — checked 2026-08-04
- HCPF — In-Home Support Services (IHSS) — checked 2026-08-04
- HCPF — Direct Care Workforce Base Wage (2026 base wage $17.00; Denver $19.29; Edgewater $18.17) — checked 2026-08-04
- HCPF Operational Memo 25-026 — Community First Choice (CFC) Program Implementation (effective July 1, 2025) — checked 2026-08-04
- HCPF — Community First Choice Fee Schedule, July 1, 2025 (CDASS/IHSS unit rates) — checked 2026-08-04
- HCPF IM 26-001 — Difficulty of Care and Community First Choice (IRS Notice 2014-7 tax treatment) — checked 2026-08-04
- American Council on Aging — Colorado Community First Choice (entitlement/no waitlist; spouse and adult child may be paid; 2026 financial limits) — checked 2026-08-04
- Consumer Direct Colorado — CDASS enrollment, training, attendant rate setting — checked 2026-08-04